One thing happened today I saw a kid crying in the tournament, and I thought because he lost but he told me it was because that he will lose elo rating, I tried to tell him that it doesn‘t matter and he will gain it back, but I am a person who doesn‘t like rating obsession it doesn‘t do anything but hold you back , I think part of the coaching should be not to overestimate rating points (especially for beginners or youngsters) , what do you think?